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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Is it normal to keep pics of your exes? i mean lots of pics, naked, underwear shots, normal pics. Im not sure he is over these ex girlfriends!
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 April 2012):
i have them sometimes but when i find them after years i tend to toss them.
if he has them and still looks at them regularly I'd be concerned... but if they are put away "in a box"
then I'd not be concerned
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female
reader, doppleganger +, writes (15 April 2012):
No, he should move on. Or at least keep them away until you both commit further in the relationship.
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male
reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (15 April 2012):
He probably is over his ex`s. The photos will be there as a memory of the good sex they once shared.
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female
reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (15 April 2012):
Sorry. Typo in my previous post. I meant it's NOT normal.
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female
reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (15 April 2012):
No, that's normal. It's all right to keep a few photographs somewhere, locked away in a box or something, but keeping them lying around where a partner can see them is most inconsiderate. And naked shots? No bloody way, that's totally unacceptable!
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (15 April 2012):
He shouldn't have naked or underwear shots around. It's one thing to keep them somewhere they are never looked at (but there in case he's ever single again) but it's totally inappropriate to pull them out while dating someone else. I don't think it means he isn't over them, but it's still not generally appropriate. Does he know they bother you?
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reader, Bball02Megan +, writes (15 April 2012):
Yes, they are memories that he has had with his past girlfriends. I have manny pictures of my ex boyfriends. i think some of them are completly hittious. but i still keep them. they are fun to look at when you are older.(:
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