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30-35,
*Princess_
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for two months and im fed up of the way he treats me. He doesnt ever take me out or do anything with me. The thing is when we spend time together he makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. I feel so special when were alone. Its when were apart and i know he is cheating on me and even has two children by other women. I cant seem to walk away, im always desperate to talk to him and try to make him happy. Im fed up of being treated like this but i dont know why i cant walk away! Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (19 July 2008):
 maybe because your in love with him the side that makes you feel on top of the world, except when hes not their you come crashing back..i know you dont want to hear this but dont you think you should just walk away and find someone better someone who will treat you right all the time and not cheat on you? try making a list of the good points and underline the bad ones. make a another list of what you would like in a partner and compare the two does he even come close ? i doubt it..sometimes no matter what we hear sometimes we just dont listen for whatever reason.. you have to walk away yourself we can only give you guidance in the right direction whether you walk that path is your choice..if you dont like the way your being treated talk to him or move on. majority of the time people dont change unless they want to and if hes happy then he will stay that way..the only thing you can do is change walk away with diginity and say im worth more than this i deserve better give yourself confidence stand tall make a desicion and follow it through till the end..that my opinion hope it helps gd luck hun with your choices aphexy xx
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