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female
age
36-40,
*arker
writes: I've been dating this guy now for exactly 2 months. And he's really great, offers to help me out no matter what kind of trouble I get into. But when we make plans for him to come and see me he never shows up. When I call him the night before to make our plans even more clear, he doesn't pick up the phone. I would drive the 2 hrs myself to go visit him, but I was recently in a car accident and I have issues with driving a car, or being in one for an extended period of time. I've grown to love him deeply, despite the fact that i've broken up with him twice for my own selfish reasons. I was wondering if I should end it and never look back this time because he can't keep a promise, or am I being selfish and only thinking of myself?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 July 2008):
If he's treating you like this 2 months in then what is he going to be like when the honneymoon period is over.
You say you have already split up twice, and you are 2 hours from each other.
I really don't think this is meant to be hun. Perhaps later in life when you are back driving, or he has grown up a bit, or you've moved closer together through work... but not now.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): If you are having issues like like only 2 months in and you have already broke up twice, i'd say call it a day and break up.
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