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writes:I have been with my guy for nearly a year,hes 22 but acts like a child and it really annoys me. For example he'll make stupid nosies,and do stupid voices all the time,hell start clapping really loudly for no reason what so ever and he does immature things all the time. Ive told him to grow up and behave like a grown up he says sorry and that he wont do it again but the next day hes doing it again,i dont understand why he cant behave like a grown up,my brother has ADHD and behaves in a similar way do uou think he could have it to??? xx thanks for any help you can give
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (19 July 2008):
I'm sorry, but what a weirdo! I knew guys that acted like that in high school. A lot of guys say that they'll "change" but it won't happen. Figure out if it really is some uncontrollable problem or if it's his lack of maturity. If it's some sort of disorder you really need to think about if it's something you really want to put up with longterm. Not to mention if it is a mental disorder, it can be hereditary. Do you really want crazy kids? If he's just immature, it could take him at least another 8 years to finally grow up, and I don't think you want to waste your time on that!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 July 2008):
He might just be a bit mad. Many people are mad. It doesn't have to be diagnosed and given a special name. It's just that he has a mad personality.
You could take him to the doctors and get him drugged and then you might like him more as he'll be a zombie.
Or you could admit that you just can't cope with an outlandish personality and find someone quieter and more boring.
There was a girl who was complaining she wanted a louder more fun boyfriend as hers is really dull a day or two ago... perhaps you could swap?
Good Luck!! xx
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