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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:we've dating for 2 yrs now my problem is that he is having a poor backround family and works for a non paying company,I'm 26 yrs and i wish get married to someone who is going to be able to do something like buying a house but if i am going to marry this i just for see disaster that means iam going to take care of everything in that house,dont get me wrong cause i love too much but sometimes i have to think about my future and that means im going to suffer a lot as im at least having a good job so everything will be on my shoulders-i just want to know if im wrong or im selfish please be honest and tell me the truth.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 July 2008):
Well you can marry for love and be completely happy in a cardboard box. Or you can marry for financial security and always wonder.
As a team you will be capable of great things. I am sure you could work out a way for him to get a better job.
Together things will always work out if it is real love.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): Love and marriage means for better or for worse... You should ask yourself whats more important to you.
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