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*exi suga
writes:i was wondering if i could get some help...i recently decided to break of a so called open releationship (though there was no sex involved just other stuff)as i didnt want to carry on playing second fiddle to his ex. he always said to me that he wants to be with me just not at that moment in time as it was too soon... anyway i then decided that i would keep seeing him but without the physical side and just get to know each other like he wanted... anyway we carried on talking just as much as we used to but only met up yestday for the 1st time after making that desicion...it was soo hard and i was determined not to do anything and i didnt for the first 4 hours and then it all kicked off... we began kissing and thats it... it was like a rolling stone... after the nite was over i again started the topic of him nor being with me and why again it was the same issue... he says that when we are together we are so happy so why change it... i dont know what to do do i just simply walk away from everything we have or do i stay there in his life... i dont know someone helpppp me pleasee!!!!
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reader, loria  +, writes (18 July 2008):
well hes happy isnt he
there a phrase that goes like this
If you love someone let them go if they come back they are your if they dont they never where good luck
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (18 July 2008):
 You did the right thing when you broke it off. Don't have any kind of sex with someone who doesn't want to have a relationship. Why on earth would you give in to sexual demands from a person who has no respect or love for you? Who cares if he is mad at you? Be furious with him!!!! Simple!
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (18 July 2008):
sexi suga is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust to make it clear there was NEVER any sex involved so the question goes do i walk away from him as i cant control myself around him or do i stay in his life as a friend and keep trying not to give in???
i dont really wanna give him up and walk away ive come to far though he doesnt wnna give me the commitment so whats my options???
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