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writes:Can women ever win? Men seem to think "you" have to have sex with them straight away but then if you do -they think you are easy. If you don't have sex with them and make them wait- they don't like it and go elsewhere.Men themselves in the past have said never never sleep with a man straight away so what is one supposed to do?. I have held back - so then I have no men around me!!! There are so many women/girls who will do it-what chance do I stand??I realize we are living in a different world now but I just don't know what to do.It seems I just cant win! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have known people who have met on holiday and got married. They did not have sex on holiday - but met up when they came home. So why did this guy give me his home address and telephone number when we had not had sex.
Also I own a holiday flat just two miles from where he lives purely by conincidence (which I have had years) so it would have been very easy to see him - BUT he has dropped contact.
Bigsister I was not expecting a narriage proposal-I was expecting contact when I came home thus the address etc
it hasnt happened but I was very surprised he even gave it to me IF he did not want to keep in touch especially knowing I had a flat nearby If required.
PS. I do not live in the USA I live in great Britain!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI went on a cruise. What is wrong with that? I do not drink and definitely have never hung around bars. I would have thought a cruise would be a nice place to meet someone??
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 well hun there is nothing like the right time to sleep with a guy,the only thing here is the right person..u can sleep with a guy who is a total jerk just because the time is right and feel like total shit after,so find your special someone and just go with the flow...and u said u held back many times which shows that u werent ready or probably not sure of these men u were dating..take it easy and u will know that this is right man!!!
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