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I would love to make love to my wife more often, but shes always has an excuse what can I do!?!

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Question - (15 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

This is tearing me to pieces! I love my wife. I would love to make love to her maybe 2 or 3 times a week. We are married 5 years with a 2 year old we have been together for 10 years. Unfortunately she is never in the mood. She is into porn so that isn’t the problem. One can only take care of ones self so often, and the I’m too tired excuse is worse than not getting any. I could be dead tired from a 12hr. day but never that tired. I’ve tried to bring the topic at hand up numerous times with the same flat result every time. I know it’s on her mind also. I’ve noticed in our bookmarks she has been looking up ways to get her libido going, but I don’t think there is a cream out there with the all mighty answer included. Once I shut her down because I was 1/2 pissed at her for turning me down and 1/2 dead tired. She was so pissed she wouldn’t let me go to sleep and practically raped me the next day (If it’s possible for a female to rape a willing man). We both work she full time I 8hrs +. I do many of the household chores and still nothing. Any females out there with some advise?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006):

do you use porn???if so then that explains why she wouldnt want to have sex with you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006):

Well hun I guys you need to find out what excited her.. like porn videos.. or watching other girls. Take her to a strip club (female) and have a good time. Have her get a lap dance and than you! She will see you looking at another girl naked while holding your hand. Look at her and smile to let her know that she's better. Spice it up!! Have someone watch your little one and just have sex all over the house. Another thing is to buy her sexy clothing and bake her some cooking with Ginsing in them.. that's for energy. You can buy it at a nature store. Ask her what excited her... have her masturbate in front of you.. get toys!! Be creative.. use dairy products. There are so many ways! Good luck and keep it hot!!!

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