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writes: Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy?My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found someone that's not such a pervert (call me old-fashion). Our sex life is very well, so I'm not worry our relationship will have problems relating this.I'm in a long relationship with him, and I trust he doesn't hide porn from me. But my guy friends keep telling me every guy watches porn. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): YES! All men watch porn! I just found out (after 6 years) that my boyfriend has been watching porn! He said he quit watching it for me when we 1st got together because I told him I hated it. If he is and you don't like it...don't look for it. Better not to know. But my mans greqt he cooks an cleans for me! So I thougt he was perfect he turns his head when naked grl on tv an I figure he does tthis to make me think he don't actually like it! All men watch it mark my words
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (17 September 2006):
 Hey girl,
My boyfriend doesn't go near the stuff and has never been into it - so yes to your question, there are guys out there that don't feel the need to look at it but society and various internet chat forums have led us to believe that ALL men watch it when that is as further from the truth as can be. xxx
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reader, bonym  +, writes (16 September 2006):
 I am amazed beacuse apparently, there are some agony aunts/uncles who have this amazing superpower, they know EVERY man on the face of this earth thus they conclude that ALL men like porn. Errm hello, wake up, NOT ALL MEN LIKE FILTH YOU KNOW. As I said before, I know plenty who have no desire for it, simple as that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): Yes most men do watch porn. Why because some women allow it and think its accetable. ITS NOT. Its pathetic, it shows character weakness and a lack of resepct for ALL women including his partner. To the woman who said her partner has had a 26 yr interest but what can she do...it seems to me a simple answer (although admitedly hard to act on) LEAVE.
Men will continue to treat us in the ways wqe accept. Have some self respect ladies, stand up and say NO to this rubbish.
maybe when all the porn users are left with their lube and mags and all the non porn users have wonderful living female companions, then and only then men might get the idea.
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reader, liina +, writes (16 September 2006):
 Yes, he is lying to yu.Every guy has interest in porn.The man I've been married to has been interested for the past 26 yrs. He also watches it from his computer now.I don't like it one bit, but what can I do....
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reader, bonym +, writes (15 September 2006):
I am female but I have NEVER watched porn and have no desire to ever watch it and I know at least 35 men who never have either and never will, so yes it is very possible. xXx
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reader, ogga +, writes (15 September 2006):
i guess i watch porn, but i dont see the attraction i guess it's just my young age (16) but it doesnt really do anything, in this day and age most lads feel pressure to watch it as i did, but it doesnt do anything for me so dont bother with it anymore, most guys probably go throug h a phase and either stick with it or don tbother with it after that
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): One of my guy friends never watched porn because he never wanted to. He lived with two other guys (dorm) and they would often watch porn, and yeah... So he's an exception, and there's another who doesn't really watch porn - maybe once every now and then.
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reader, stina  +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I think everyone watches porn at some point in his/her life. But not everyone "needs" to watch it.
If your boyfriend says he doesn't look at it, then he probably doesn't. I know my husband doesn't look at it. He stopped shortly after he met me because he simply didn't have the want to watch it anymore.
So, like camille says, "how would your guy friends know what every other guys is doing?" They don't.
Take care. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): Yes
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reader, Jadzia1127 +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Trust your boyfriend and stop listening to your 'guy friends'. It sounds like you have a great boyfriend and he has never done anything to make you think he would lie to you about this.
These guys aren't your friends if they are saying things to you that would undermine your relationship with your boyfriend.
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reader, camille +, writes (15 September 2006):
 How would your guy friends know what EVERY other guy is doing? Just cos they are doesn't mean everyone else is. Porn isn't perverse, it's preference so it's not for everyone. And just for the record....many girls watch it too, it's not just a guy thing anyway.
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (15 September 2006):
well hun every guy gets to an age in there life were they Are curious its normally at teenage year and like in there 20's most guys grow out of it hun esp when they find a girl they falling for.also mostly single men and not like family men or men will girls they are madly in love with and only want them.
for exsample my guy says when he was younger he watched porn and i dont think he does now and i trust him i think every guy watches porn some time in there life all at diffrent ages diffrent stages in their lifes as every guy ant the same.
your bf says that he used to watch it that tell me that some tim ein his life he was curious and makes me think he doesnt anymare.
you should ask him if you havnt already and if he loves you he will tell you truth no matter what the answer is he mite not tell you straight away so be cam.
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