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writes: hi im 15. Would u say my boy mate fancies me cos if he sees me in the corridor he pokes me or bangs into me as a joke and smiles. hes the same age as me.And sometimes when i am sitting down eating my lunch he says to one of his mates "oh if u want any sexual advise then go to her" pointing at me and smiling so i can hear him. i just laugh cos its funny lol.do u think he fancies me or just messing about as mates?i haven't got a clue if someone fancies me, i'm just rubbish at reading signals like that lol... but what do u think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): he could fancie you these are a few signs of flirting just wait a bit and find out...he may just want to be friends!
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Well is a bit tough, i have this problem and sometimes i havent realised that they do. Just if he says that about if you want sexual advise turn it around and say well he should just ask you, you know you gave me the advis, give a little smile and see what happens. Maybe he does Maybe he dont jus suss it out abit more, what he does to you do it back to him you will soon find out. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): by the way the other answer was from me, the person who asked this question :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): sorry but he only pokes me to say hello and jokingly walks into me. he's not hurting me or touching me in private places or anything so i honestly dont see the harm in that.
and he said that to his mate for a joke about that sexual thing, his mate knows its for a joke and so do i.
thanx for the advise though lol.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (15 September 2006):
 This boy is disrespecting you.
He is talking sexual harassment trash about you by saying "oh if u want any sexual advise then go to her"
He is physically assaulting you by poking you or banging into you.
This boy doesn't know how to have a girl, guy relationship and is stepping over the social acceptable behaviors.
You need to start standing up for yourself to prevent situations you don't want to be in. Next time he says trash about you report him, next time he physically assaults you report him. Hopefully your school will step in and help him learn how he should act toward a girl.
The best signal that a guy likes you, he tries to start up a friendship with you, not ruin your reputation and assault you.
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