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*im sam 2013
writes: Me and this boy have been talking on im and me and him talk more on im then in person. When we talk in person he actually talks more then me. And i dont know if i like him or not.... and i dont know if he likes me he likes alot of girls and is going out with one of my friends. And i always wonder if i should act like her to get him to like me???? so my questions are should i be myself? should i pay more attention to him so that he starts to get to know me? how do i know if he likes me i need good answers cause this is so important!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): let me get this straight. his girlfriend is your friend?? and you're trying to move in for the kill?? that sounds pretty awful if you ask me. first lesson in dating - DON'T GO FOR OTHER FRIENDS BOYFRIENDS/GIRLFRIENDS. actually, that's just a good lesson in life. you wouldn't appreciate your friend going for your boyfriend would you? if she's really your friend, you would leave him alone and move on. that's my advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): I'm sorry but the first thing i thought when i read this was WHAT SORT OF FRIEND ARE YOU??? You say this is your friends boyfriend, then why are you trying to steal him? Who needs enemies when you've got friends like you. Also if he is willing to see you will he's still seeing your friend then he's not the sort of bloke that you want as a boyfriend. If he splits with your friend, then leave it for a month and then have a chat with her and just let her know that you have feelings for him and you hope she doesn't mind but your hopeing to start seeing him. Remember friends stand by you when boyfriends don't, your friendship should come first.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (16 September 2006):
 Dont try and be someone that you are not hunny. If he got to know the pretend you, how would you ever know whether he really likes you or someone else. Just be yourself, he obviously has time for you as he spends time talking to you. Try and speak to him in person the same as you do on im. I know you probably become nervous when facing him but just think to yourself, you speak to him all the time on im and he enjoys the conversations so I am going to speak to him the same in person. Also you have to remember that he is with your friend at the moment and you cannot destroy their relationship, so I suggest you just try and be friends with him. If in the future they do split up you could try something then. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): Don't you ever act like anyone to get them to like you. You will never be happy as long as you're trying too hard to find love. Love yourself and it will find you and will be a lot better when it finally does b/c it will be an honest love, and not one built on pretense. Be yourself, and if this guy is right for you, it'll work out, and if he's not, the guy who IS right for you won't have gotten the wrong understanding of who you are and what you're about when you were tyring to be somebody else.
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