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writes: Me and my girlfriend are madly in love and have been for around 6 months now but we were friends for almost a year before that. Now we live together and she has just started a new college course, the only thing is that she has started to treat me badly and she has only been going a week! she dont seem bothered either. when i talk to her about it she says she wont ignore me, be nasty or check out other boys anymore but she just keeps getting worse. She says that she doesnt mean to do things or be like that but her new friends encorrage her to do it and yet she keeps bothering with then. She says that if it keeps getting worse that she will drop out in order for us to be together im worried she would hate me for causing her to drop out tho, or worse yet regret her life when she gets older. Any comments on whether i should let her do this?I told her if she really wants this then i would leave in order for her to do it with no problems but just gets upset when i even montion it. help!Its not that she can't get a job she enjoys without doing this course or anything she just likes it.And i am gonna take over my father multi million pound business to so its not as if we need the money. I just want to kno if you think id be wrong to let her do it but ive been treated badly before and i neva want that to happen to me again.Help?
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reader, sarah y +, writes (15 September 2006):
It sounds like you have the options but don`t know which one to take,on one hand things could stay as they are but you`ll both become more unhappy,or maybe your girlfriend should drop out of her college course and that does not sound like a good option or on the other hand you can as you have said walk away.The problem with any of those options is somebody will always get hurt.My thoughts are if you are meant to be together then it will work out and you`ll both be able to meet each other half way.In my opinion you have to draw the line between your personal life and your education/work life.Maybe your girlfriend should make some new friends who won`t have a bad influence....Good luck.
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Its hard when this happens, maybe put the point across are her firends more important then you. I suggest you let her carrying on her course its her own independance and she might like the fact that she wont have to reli on you. I know it sounds weird but maybe cook her dinner, use candles or buy he flowers show her that you do care, she may realise that her friends arnt worth it making her do theses things to you. good luck.
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