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writes: Good answers on the male-female cheating question. But I've got one more question sorry to bother. When males cheat its most likely than not they are going to do it again, evean if they luv their spouses. Is it safe to say the same for women. Or maybe it just depends on the situation, is it, "once a cheat always a cheat" for both men and women. Trying to understand female cheats. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): IM 16 I Hve beein out with this lad 5 times and cheated 4 of them i realy dont mean to cheat but i just carnt seem to stop it i know what ur thinking (for god sake girl keep controll) i try i just dont work n he worst thing is i realy like this lad i was wondering if your seeing someone can u still get on somone whu your bf dosses with and it isnt classed as cheating
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): you are just not what she wants anymore if you think she is cheating maybe she is and just deal with or get out while you can...she obviously wants someone else and they are more important than you are.. Is this your wife? do you have kids? Just leave her move away let her do what she wants cause obviously she wants someone else...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): Just because you think she cheated before doesn't mean she is cheating now no matter what cirrcumstantial evidence you have give her the benefit of the doubt
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (15 September 2006):
personally i think perople woman or men can change.i used to always cheat i tryed to change and people said i have changed and i ant the person used be for the good.i think if someone cheats and you relise how stupid and dont want be like that and want to change badly and try hard anouth i think you can well i did and now i am happy with my fiance i did cheat ages ago but prob is that he still gets worried but i dont blame him but we love each other.
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reader, Raona +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Personally I don't think you could judge a person from cheating once weather it be male or female. At the end of the day what I believe is that if you cheat on your partner, you don't love them.
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (15 September 2006):
 i dont know you cant tar everbody with the same brush some men will learn there lesson and never cheat again whereas others will keep doing it its all about temptation and seriously if you LOVED your partner you wouldnt cheat if you think you would then you havent experienced real love.
i've cheated in the past always with the same person i loved him and when we finished i went out with other men to push myself to get over it but it doesnt work and i kept cheating on them with my ex, but when i was in a relationship with my ex i would never dream of cheating on him because i love him so much.
if got with someone new now i cant 100% say that i would be faithful if my ex came back again i wish i could be but temptation gets the better of me.
maybe i'll love someone else one day and never cheat again but until then i suppose i am a weak in the sense that i dont know how to say no to him.
if you are in love you dont cheat if your a man or woman
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (15 September 2006):
 I dont think anybody knows that until it happens!
I dont think people set out to cheat they are just maybe to some ends weaker, male or female. You cannot say if someone cheated male or female if they will cheat again. it doesnt work like that. The chances are of course higher, it shows they are capable of deciet, but doesnt mean they will do it again. Some cheat to thier cost and it genuinely is a mistake and givent the time again they woudlnt do it, but some thrive on it. Have you had a girl cheat on you ? Is that what the prob is ? We are all individuals and we cannot speak for one or the other, no one knows if once a cheat always a cheat there are always very different circumstances surrounding them.
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