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writes: Hi there. Ok then, here's the problem: I am sure that my boyfriend fancies his mate's girlfriend, Rachel (not her real name). I believe so because whenever we're with his mate and Rachel, he acts differently, particularly when he is talking with Rachel. E.g. We were holding hands and when they started talking, he started squeezing my hand, which he does when he's nervous. Another clue is that whenever he's going out with his mates without me, n Rachel's there, he'll say he feels nervous but doesn't know why, or he'll act strangely when he next sees me. I'm getting really worked up about this and don't know what to do. Should I confront him about it or will I look silly? It's difficult because the four of us often go on double dates and all I can do is worry about whether or not he fancies her! Reply to this Question
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (15 September 2006):
hun i think you should just sit him down and ask him and say to him you need to no.you wont look silly and you will be clad whatever the answer is because end of the day you will no and wont be buging you and you getting worried about it also not feeling werid when she there thinkin does he you will no.
even though you mite not like the answer least you no and can get on with life.
good luck hun xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): You should talk to him or else it's going to get to you more, you won't look silly. You could always make a joke of it. Tease him and say you've seen how he acts with her or something. I did this with me boyfriens when I though he fancies one of his mates. Just see how he reacts to you saying it. If he snaps at you then the chances are that he does fancy her, if he laughs it off then he doesn't.
Good luck x
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