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writes: hi ive been seeing this guy for the last 7 months we are quite serious and i really do love him. however i have this undenyable 'thing' for his unidenticle twin brother who seems to be the perfect guy hes kind funny and a real gentleman who i love spending time with. i really want o spend more time with him just as a friend but understandlbly my other half doesnt like his brother being around what shall i do?another problem i have been having in our relationship is no things are drying, lackof sex lack of compliments, it reall feels like he doesnt care what can i do to make things the way they were?thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, treetop +, writes (24 October 2006):
Hi TarkaI have been in this situation before except the brother was not identical. he was very good looking and was always very nice to me, made me laugh, was honest, good company etc etc. the brother i was with had stopped paying me so much attention and i thought that he did not care for me. I was very wrong. I took mny cahnces witht he other brother, call it a moment of madness. It caused so much pain and anguish for all involved and the guilt was enormas. The two brothers are now back on good terms but never like they were. I was left alone and no one would talk to me because every one saw it as my fault. It was the worst mistake of my life. I'm sorry i have given you a long story. I just want you to know that it is normal for the sparkes to get a little smaller the longer you stay together you maybe heading towards the end of your honey moon period. Ask yourself if you are falling for the other brother, could this be a reason towards your sex life drying up! my advice to you would be to steer well clear of the other brother, could end up very messy and a lot of hurt.
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