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writes:HiI would like opinions on whether or not it is a good idea for a girl to ask a guy nearly the same age (although he is months older) out and what would be the best way to do this without looking desperate - guy opinions definitely welcome here.Just that I like this guy who keeps looking at me in class at college (he is 19, im 18) and I have spoken to him briefly. (he always looks lost when hes looking at me, does that mean anything). he can be quite quiet too.How can i tell he is definitely interested without actually asking him and is it a good idea for ME to start conversatinos with him, or should he ALWAYS start them with ME.and is it good or bad if he is ever caught talking to his guy friend about me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006): Hello,
Well you ask a lot all at once but lets try to help!.
Ok first of all you need to find out if he really does like you, I find a little bit of gentle flirting usually does the trick. for example you could start a conversation about your college class and how it went that day, that should get you guys on talking terms. then when you are talking to him gently play with your hair, smile, laugh at his jokes, always look interested in what his saying and a little touch on the arm or on the shoulder usually implies that you like him.
Once you have a good rapport with him and your happy that he definately likes you, if he hasnt asked you out just go ahead and ask him out, he may be too shy to ask.
On the subject of talking to his friends about you, if he is saying that he likes you and he would like to date you then yes its ok, but if he is saying bad things about you then steer clear of him hes not worth your time.
Hope I was of some help, let me know how it goes.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 I think asking a guy out is fine. Sometimes thats what it will take. It takes a lot of pressure off of the guy. I wouldn' mind it at all if a woman asked me out.
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