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writes: Hi, I am a 21 year old and I have never really had a serious boyfriend - surprisingly. But I seem to have found someone I really, really like. Well, first of all let me explain. I ran into my old, old guy friend at where I used to work, then I quit working there and he got the job I had. Well, later on, I get on Myspace and I stumble across his profile. I add him as a friend, and then we start talking. Next thing I know, the lead singer of his band requests me to add him as a friend. I fall in love at first sight of this guy. Okay, so I talk with those 2 guys on Myspace for a few days, and then I go to one of their shows. Next thing I know, the guy I fell in love with at first sight -- sends me a message telling me the shirt I had bought and wore to support them looked really good on me. So next thing I know, the guy and I are talking on Myspace through the little mail system they have on there...and he tells me to drop by the practice area and spontaniously just puts his cell number...so I mailed him asking if he wanted me to call. He didn't say anything back... so the next day, I called him. We talked for about 2 hours...and totally hit it off. Next thing you know, I am at their practice area, and the guy is hugging me all of the time and just acting like I am the only girl in the place...making me feel so special. I am liking this. haha. But anyway, we take a tonnnn of pictures and his torso is always aimed towards mine ... no matter if the photos are candid or not...and he even shadows my poses without thinking in some. I realized this after I saw the photos. Anyway, so I go home and stuff after practice, then the next day I go back, and he gives me a hug...but then he starts to act like I don't exist. I went 2 more times after those 2 and I'm getting less and less acknowledged by him....but at the end of the last practice, he came back from taking his friend to her friends house and he sat by me and put his arm around me in the booth where the band and i went to eat.. then he moves his hand across my knee and grabs it a little...and moves it away. I then ask if he wants me to mock him..and he shrugs and says he doesnt care... I look into his eyes and do it..and it doesn't faze him at all. HELP... I don't know if he likes me or not.... I'd LOVE some help...advice...anything. I really like this guy... but I'm so confused..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): Girl, this is your soul sister here. Don't fret about this fish, he's only one of many in the sea. If he wants you, he will come to you. We don't chase men, you know this. Just sit back and go on with your life. I'm here for you, and that means I gotta come kick this blowfish right in his hootie!!!Love You Much Babes!!Jayme
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reader, stina  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 Hello Love,
This guy is acting really strange. The only thing that I can think of is that he might feel smothered. But then again, it doesn't sound like you guys hang out a lot.
Maybe he's not ready for a committed relationship. Perhaps he thinks that if he keeps being sweet, you might expect him to be in an exculsive relationship with you sometime soon. That's only a guess, though.
But before assuming anything, I'm thinking maybe you could try to ask him what's going on. But be prepared for what I mentioned above. Because if that is the reason (or another similar reason) you won't feel 'as bad' since you've been prepared for it.
If you don't want to ask him, then maybe it's best to just give him some space (also by limiting the myspace talk, as well). Remember, if he likes you, he'll try to contact you, too!
Take care.
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