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writes: i feel really sad becuase i have never had a boyfriend and never snogged any1 or touched any 1 it makes me feel down because every1 picks on me because of it but there is one boy who i asked out but he said no becuase i have 2 many spots even though i only have 3 plz help me get a bf.
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reader, Evangeline  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 I can honestly say that everyone at some point in their lives feels like no one will ever like them and that they will never meet or fall in love with anyone. Meeting boyfriends is something that just happens - when it happened to me I was at an interschool competition and he was someone who just started chatting to me during the day, I wasnt looking for 'someone' when I went to the competition that morning, I didnt even cross my mind that I would meet someone - it just happens. It will happen to you! I promise! But please dont waste time by constantly looking for it, being in relationships is more stressful than one might imagine even if you both are very close, so its really important to enjoy at make the most of the time you have before you meet that someone!
It will happen to you and believe me it will take you by surprise! I thought no one would ever like me because I was underconfident. The best way to meet people is to try and get involved in something you enjoy out of school (I know this sounds a bit of a cliche!) But still even if you dont meet anyone brilliant if you do join something, dont give up and stop putting effort in you might make good friends or meet someone special through them. Get out there a bit, meet people and have fun, learn to enjoy yourself and I promise it wiil happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): Ok babes,
try not to worry about this sort of stuff, I assume that ur still very young which means you have plenty of time to get boyfriends.
But I can tell that its upsetting you, im sure that your skin really isnt as bad as you think and lets face it everyone gets spots when theyre young.
Hey I'm 25 and I still get spots!!
I'm sure the boys really arent botherd that you might have 3 spots. trust me its alot better than having bad acne!.
If you just be yourself an have fun without stressing about this then I'm sure you will start to feel more confident.
Just be yourself babes let your pesonality shine through.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): Dont be daft theres nothing wrong with you The reason you havent had a boyfriend or kissed anyone yet is simply because its not the right time for you!
you only sound very young you have plenty of time I know loads of grown ups have probebly said this to you too and you think but I want one now! but what you just asked then is exactly what I wrote in my Diary age 12+ so it caught my eye Im 20 now and I realise they where compleatly right a few weeks later I had my first kiss and it was magic so it could happen anytime in the meantime enjoy youself try a knew hobbie you could meet new friends and boys that way
also see if your Mum/Aunt could take you shopping for the day to buy some nice clothes or accesarys or have a girlie night in with them with D.v.Ds and face masks etc tell them how your feeling maybe they could help even if they just reasure that you dont have to rush into things good luck :)
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