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writes: Why wont my girlfriend have sex with me? we have been together for six months, and i thought that we should me more sexual than once a month. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): i feel you. i am in a relationship for a year now, and i usually get sex once every two months. i dont know why and it boggles me. mind you, i'm a lesbian, and i've never been a particularly horny girl. in fact i've always had a lower sex drive, now i feel like a freak cuz she never wants it and i always do. mostly i want it more now that i can't have it. i love her too much to leave. well i'm not helping, but i just wanted to let you know, i feel you, and i know its hard. my best advice would be to sit down and talk to her, cuz i did that with my gf and she agreed with me, even tho it hasn't gotten better yet, first step i guess is that she recognize it. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): well me and my girl have been to geather 3 years and i have the same problems
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reader, ogga +, writes (24 October 2006):
it sounds to me as if the guys below have misunderstood as to that she just doesnt plain have sex with you yet where as the truth seems to be that she does but has a low sex drive. i would talk to her about it and ask why this is and if there is anything you can do, if she just says she doesnt feel lke it very oftennothing you can do she just has a low sex drive. if there is another reason se eif you can help or whatever it is. if you ask for it a little bit moreoften then i dont think this is selfish just asking, but if she says no dont force the issue.
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 hi have yo tryed talking to her about this i think that it is a little bit selfish of you but maybe there is a good reason to why she wornt have sex more than once a week
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006): I agree with "lostandalone", I think there may be things that she isn't sure of or maybe she has some personal reasons, and maybe she just does'nt want too!!.
Either way if you really love this girl then give her some space and be patient!!.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 She'll let you know when she wants sex, back off and take some cold showers.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (23 October 2006):
 Maybe she's just not ready!!! There isn't a time limit on were you should be sexually. I think its selfish of you to think that just because you want to she automatically should. Grow up!!!
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