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writes: Hi there, hope you can help. Im in love with my male friend and he is aware of this has been for months and it doesnt scare him at all and at times im proper full on. The problem I have is we have this really strong bond, there is alot of physical / sexual chemistry between us but he has been so badly hurt I think he has no confidence left and is basically scared of women. When we are out together with my other female friends he kinds of hides behind me like im his comfort blanket, but at times when we are alone its as though he is scared to be around me. At times I have actually thought is this guy gay but then we have text sex etc and I know he isnt. Its strange, he jumps when im affectionate towards him which frustrates me because im an affectionate lady. He has admitted that he is very attracted to me, likes me loads and when he is ready for a relationship he wants to be with me but he is scared to get into another relationship at the moment and wants to enjoy single life (but he did say this didnt involve sleeping around which I believe). I just cant understand why he wont let me show him affection. We hug alot then he sorts of lets himself go and hugs me like he wants more then he scares himself and goes straight back into his shell. Im not sure what to do to make him realise im not going to hurt him. Im not going to walk away because I have put alot of effort into getting him this far, just not sure what else I can do. Thanks for listening x
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reader, miss help +, writes (23 October 2006):
 tell him how you fill and that your worried about him
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