A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:I just returned from my ex boyfriend's house where I spent the weekend. We have been broken up now for 3 months and when I was there this weekend he was staring into my eyes and saying that he thought I was beautiful inside and out. I told him that I don't want to lose him and he replied "you never really did" and I asked if we'll ever get back together and he said "In a bit". Also, I had a dream this weekend that another girl was coming over and he said that he's not dating anyone else or speaking to anyone else and that he wishes I would just believe him. The reason why we broke up was because he's depressed and he's afraid of commitment but now he's going to start getting help this week. I need to know if he's being honest with me and if we'll ever get back together again? We still act like we're a couple just don't have that commitment right now. Really confused!
View related questions:
broke up, depressed, get back together, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):
 This is a tough one as noone really can know what is going on inside his head, he could well be telling you the truth and waiting til he has got help is a great thing to do as you not drag you down with him but he could also not want to lose you completely and therefore pulling you along with him saying the right things, things you want to hear as to keep you close either way it does sound like he still loves you and you are a big part in his life but whether you will get back together only time will tell, the only thing I can suggest is being his friend and being there for him when he needs you.
After he starts getting help he could want to make things work with you but he may realise he needs to go his own way so be prepared for either outcome.
Good luck :o)
A
female
reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 Hi Anon, Sounds like he is still in love with you and does have feelings for you..if you say he has been depressed then this is why you broke up ..maybe things were getting too much for him and he has other issues and because of the way he feels he knows he can't be himself with you and fully commit himself at this present time..although you broke up and still see eachother it seems like he needs time to sort his head and his troubles out..try not to put any pressure on him let him get help...and take each day as it comes..don't worry im sure everything will turn out fine. xLEAHx
...............................
|
