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writes:I broke up with my husband coming up 12 weeks,ive been a complete wreck as i wasnt expecting it. I was prepared to try and work on our problems which to me were fixable but the major problem is I would like to have a family and he just isnt sure its what he wants. I thought that ive wasted enough time (7 years of marriage)and it would be best for us to end our relationship and start again, i dont want to give up what i would like in order to keep him. I am finding it so difficult to come to terms with, i havent seen him for 5 weeks and when we contact eachother by phone its very painful and sets me back weeks. I feel like im starting to turn the corner but i have so many nagging doubts, i believe i am doing the right thing deep down but I feel so alone and rejected that he didnt even want to try. How can someone you now so well hurt you so much?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): when love hurts-it wont work..focus on getting ur self esteem back...yes u are going to miss him and yes ur going to keep feeling as tho u have made a mistake and yes urs and his memories are going to bug u for ages..BUT one day..(that day probably seems like ages away yet)..one day u will find sumone who properly loves u back and wants to share everything with u...ur dreams..ur ambitions...so for now..enjoy a lil 'me' time...rememba..dont cry becuz its over..smile because it happend...good luck..Freind x
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reader, andy906 +, writes (18 October 2006):
i understand this must be very hard for you but everytime you talk to him its just hurting you.
i think you should cut all ties and start again it will be hard but worth it as its just going to hurt you in the long run.
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