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anonymous
writes: My ex and I have been broken up for almost 3 months now but we still remain friends. The reason we broke up is because he's battling depression and anxiety. He's finally going to start seeing a doctor for it. He told me last night on the phone that he does want a family one day and that he wants to get better first. He doesn't want things to change between us right now, he still wants to remain friends. He asks me to be patient and to stay strong. He says that he still loves me and doesn't want to lose me either and I feel the sameway. My question is, Can this relationship be saved?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): You need only ask yourself that question, he needs your suport right now. Having a relationship now, will only make you his emotional crutch and not the relationship you really want.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (18 October 2006):
I really think the relationship can be saved. If both of you really love each other and he is willing like you said to work on the problems u faced then i can see the possibility. I really think that right now though the best thing u can do is be there for him and guide him to remain in treatment to become better again. He might not be ready yet to for an intense emotional relationship right now but i can see him getting some stability really soon if he continues seeking help and perhaps a more fulfiling and stable relationship between the two of you in the near future.
Goodluck dear
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