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writes:Any advise on how to get a guy to gain trust in you? I havent done anything to ruin his trust in me we have recently met. We both like each other but he says he has issues with trust due to his past. Im nearly 15 and he's 17. I dont want to be lectured about going out with older guys i've heard it all before. He isnt just after me for sex or anything. We are both virgins and agree we dont see there any point in sex till you have a long term relationship thats special.
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reader, kat14 +, writes (19 October 2006):
kat14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Update he now told me he doesnt like me anymore than mates now. We arent meeting up at the weekend. Its basically over :'(
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (19 October 2006):
 I understand your concerns. Me and my bf started the same way and have been together for almost three years. There isn't too much you can do but be trustworthy. Eventually he'll come around, although sometimes men dont trust you because they are doing something, or has done something wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): My boyfriend came to me and asked why i didn't trust him (he went out one time and i asked him, like a mate would, did you pick up? and he was like no i would never do that to you...)Anyway I told him I could never trust him and I will never trust anyone (everybody - friends family included)I told him that I have turst issues and he will have to get used to the fact i won't trust anyone or he can leave....sorry I can't give any advice really, the best you can do is to be faithful and be there for him, let him come to you and don't F**K him around (i mean that by don't be a flaky gf or anything) cos that's part of how i'm the way i am. eventually he may trust you but if he is anything like me he will never come around.bets of luck though :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): The best way to get your guy to trust you? For starters, never, ever lie to him. Always be honest and open with him. He's obviously has been deeply hurt, from his past. So the trust with you and him needs time to get established and built up. Be patient and take your time. It will happen. Good luck
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