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writes: I've been dating a guy for about a month now. It's been going really great but about 2 days ago he talked to is ex of maybe 6 months on msn. Supposedly they were not talking no more but out of the blue there she was. She just broke up with her boyfriend and was telling my boyfriend about me(nothing bad). I ask him if he would go back to her and he said probably not. It's the "probably" in all that that bothers me. I don't know what i should do, brake it of right now or take the chance of getting hurt? He's he over her or still wants to be with her cause the relationship ended cause of long distance. plz help me figure that out. thank you in advance
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reader, shania  +, writes (18 October 2006):
 Id be a bit wary....he said "probably" because he might be wishful thinking that he could get back with her,but it would be down to her,not him.The fact that they talk on msn sounds all very cosy and it doesn't feel right.If their relationship ended because of the distance,then its possible that they do have feelings for each other still.I would ask him again on where you two stand because if you are just a rebound job then i would pull out now...who needs ex's sniffing around the place?
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reader, kellyO +, writes (18 October 2006):
 Hi CrAzYp_22,
I think the best thing u can do right now is get enough clarification and reassurance from him. He obviously didnt give u a satisfactory answer and no matter what anyone says here it is still going to nag you at the back of your mind so why not talk to him and let him know everything u said here. Make him realise that he is important to you. If he gives you the necessary reassurance that u are looking for then perhaps u should try and let go the issue of his ex and build relatively on both of your relationship. Think of ways u can strengthen the existing bond.
Goodluck dearie and all the best
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