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writes: I'm in a relationship with this guy and hes so perfect i love him so much.. we started of going out for 4 months and then we just split apart because he was having family problems and he said that he had to get some things straightened out and we will soon go back out.. and we did but it hasnt been such a great realationship than before.. every conversation is an argument, i havent seen him in about two months. it was his birthday last week and he told me he was having a house party with all the boys and his mate said girls were going and i asked him and he said there were and he didnt invite which was a little strange?!?! and just this 2 weeks he hasnt rung or text me or anything and he wont answer my calls.. Hes not a bad person though, this is why in confuses me, is it cheating? i dont think he would ever do that though. Am i giving him too much attention, am i begging for him? Should i give up even though i love him? Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): my first relationship ht the same probs, we were on off all through school and his mum HATED me, but we went thru all the usual teenage crap together and some pretty hitty stuff, but his dad got ill so we took time off mainly so not to upset his mum, and he neeeded to be there as he was the eldest, basically we grew apart during that time and never really felt the same so ended it a week after we got bk together. Basically your guy sounds mean and if it doesn't feel right somethings changed
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): What part of 'it's over ' do you not understand?
His excuse - family problems- is a gentle way to get rid of you . No man who wants a woman would tell her he needs time off. You kept calling him and seeing him despite the 'exit line' he gave you. Wrong. You were too easy, too desperate.
He invited people to his party. A man who has family problems would not have the mind to do parties.
The guy simply does not like you anymore. He wants out. The sooner you understand this, the freer you will be to live your life.
Next time be more hard to get. All men are the same! They get bored if women are too easy and too available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): If i hadn't been invited to his birthday party then i wouldn't of been too pleased. I think you need to get hold of him. Ask him what he is playing at and get to the bottom of it. If it's over then he should have the guts to tell you not beat around the bush. If that was me i would do it for him and finish with him. He knew girls were going and you weren't invited, er, i don't think so.
Get rid. You will meet someone who wants to be around you and you will feel better.
Take care
xx
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