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writes: I'm really suspicious of one of my friends because i think she having an affair with one of the teachers at our school! Before you think its my over active imagination consider this:1.she nearly called him by his first name (we aren't even in his class)2.they are always eyeing each other up and smirking at each other3.hes very strict, but always lets her off with things4. she got sent to him and instead of shouting at her he went and had a word with the teacher who sent her to him telling him to leave her alone.5.he does whatever she says like we wanted to got through a door he was stood at one dinner, he was letting noone through but she goes 'aww don't be mean' (accompanied by a long lingering look) so he let her in.6.she did some work in his department and i have it good authority she spent alot of time alone with him.7.shes just a little bit quick to insult him with the rest of us, and acts all sweet around him, could it be covering up?8. He looks at her differently some how like in a loving way.AM I BEEN PARANOID? BECAUSE I AM PLANNING ON COMFRONTING HER AND DON'T WANT TO LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): hi i know this post is 5 years old but oh well ..i would just ask her to her face and then go to the school admin /board if you think anything is continuing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): He may just be a fool; however, if you really believe that you are right, then tell the school administration and school board...but do it this way: Send them a registered letter so that they have to sign for it (so you'll have proof). Then, they confront the teacher and his student. Better yet, see if your parents will sign the letter rather than you yourself.
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reader, Funneennee +, writes (28 November 2006):
I must say that this sounds awefully familiar to me, because I know someone who had almost the exact same situation as this. Our whole school talked about it, and people were getting concerned, however, no one ever did anything about it.
Maybe what you can do is try to bring the teacher up in a conversation, just to see what your friend says about him. If that doesn't work, don't pressure her or accuse her of anything because that may cause her to get mad at you, especially if there is something going on. The best thing you can do is be subtle and let her know that you are concerned, but stay out of it as much as possible.
I really hate to say it, but there's not much you can do but let the situation unfold by itself and see what happens from there.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (28 November 2006):
 If you had a secret to hide would you flaunt it as your friend is doing?
Is your friend stupid enough to risk a teacher's career by publicly flirting with the teacher she is sleeping with? Is this teacher that stupid to risk his career, with his actions, to openly brag of sleeping with a student ?
Something is up, but it sounds like their attraction is still out in the open. The teacher hasn't hidden his attraction to her, or her to him, so I would assume they've not slept together yet. They might have developed an attraction while working together and are having fun toying with it.
When the sexual line is crossed, there is a good chance, their interaction will change noticably while they try to protect each other. Flirting will become stealth, secret messages and stolen glances, no one can see.
To most it will look like things are back to normal. Close friends though will catch little glances once awhile, that is when you should really worry.
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