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He is trapping me into staying in the relationship - Help!

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Question - (28 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have been trying to make things work with my current boyfriend who I have a baby with...I feel like I am completely uninterested in even trying anymore now that he is all in on trying to make it work...everytime I try to end it with him he continuously calls and text messages me at least 30+ times... I tell him I am going to my parents and just staying there??? He says he will throw my stuff outside if I dont come back and is crying to the point of hysteria and says if I dont come back something bad will happen. We broke up for 6 months 2 years ago and been together total 4yr 6months and this is what he did before threatens suicide and freaked out... I have no idea how to handle the situation or if I can.. I dont want to be stuck if I am not happy and I know deep down I wont be... HELP!

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A female reader, pica +, writes (29 November 2006):

Can you talk to a counsellor or doctor? It's bad that he is controlling you by threatening to kill himself. If the relationship is to survive then there needs to be talking although I realise you have had enough. Couples counselling for your child's sake? Speak to someone, even just on your own, for help on what to do.

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A female reader, charlotte123 +, writes (28 November 2006):

charlotte123 agony auntTry sitting him down and explaining to him how you feel he must understand the more he traps you the more he pushes you away it is toatally unfair what he is doing sorry this is all the advice i can give you.Good Luck

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