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writes: I've had this neighbor for 6 years now, and I used to like him even though we never really talked, but then he graduated high school and moved out to go to college two years ago and I didn't think of him much in those two years. This year, he transfered to a local college and we started talking more and hanging out and going on what all my friends call "dates". Everyone I know says that he really likes me, and always has. The problem is that he has a girlfriend who he's been seeing for two years now. I'm really confused because he is really sweet, and sensitive and I know he's not a player or anything like that, I think that he may just be confused. I don't know what to think or how to act because I'm not sure if he truely likes me. He has all the signs, he goes to places that I'll be, he makes continuous eye contact, he's somewhat overprotective of me, and him and his friends even have little secrets about me!! He finds reasons to touch me and shows all other signs of serious flirting, I'm not sure if I should flirt back because I dont want to get his girlfriend mad, but I really really do like him. Please help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): I know how you feel. But you must respect the girl he is with. If they have been togther for 2 years she must really care about him. If you dated someone that long and this was happening to you behind your back how would you feel ? Sometimes you have to put yourself in the others shoes. now if he isnt in love with her anymore and they are having a lot of problems and ect. I may consider after a while but I wouldnt jump into a fire like that. Really, he may be just wanting one thing from you. you have to look at all the sides. Dont get yourself hurt !
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