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Having sex for 3 years and I never had an orgasm..what's it like?

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Question - (28 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hey im 16 and i have been having sex since grade 9 and im in grade 12 now and i just wanted to no what an orgasum is i dont think ive had one and like to no about it

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (28 November 2006):

Yos agony auntI find it ironic that the anonymous advice tells you 'find the right woman'! Be cautious of advice you receive over the internet ;)

I agree pretty much with camille. To orgasm many people need to feel relaxed and comfortable. At such a young age that is very hard to do. You need to look at the reasons you're having sex and what you are getting out of your relationships. When you find a man who truly cares for you and with whom you can have an intimate relationship, you will likely find orgasms can happen.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006):

Dont listen to her.. Just find the right women, have a long relationship and then go through little bit of foreplay first and then sex.. then you will have a great piece of sex... but dont take advantage of her because she could like you alot x

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2006):

camille agony auntMaybe if you'd waited until you were of a legal age to have sex in the first place, you'd understand more about how to achieve one. 13 is way to young emotionally to handle sex and it's obvious the physical gratification was to please boys. Now you are 16 and should be discovering the physical side of a relationship for the FIRST time. If you don't think you've had one, you haven't, you'll know when you've had one. But I think it's time you took some self respect and waited until you are mature enough and in a long, loving relationship and then explore sex.

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