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writes: I'm very confused. I totally fell head over heals for this guy and everytime it seems things are going perfect he just all of a sudden ignores me at least for one day and then things are fine again. I think it is weird and I have brought it up more than once. He thinks it's all in my head but I think he is in love with someone else. Everyone says I have trust issues so i'm wondering if it is just me? What do you think? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): I think its healthy to have a bit of a break between contact with each other and as it is only for a day at a time I wouldn't personally be worried.Sometimes guys just need a little personal time.my ex used to disappear for a number days at a time which is worrying!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (28 November 2006):
Maybe it is in your head or maybe its not, none of that matters what does matter is that you like him and he seems to go off you every once in awhile and this hurts and messes with your head and your heart.
Nothing in life goes to plan or at least not to the plan we make up in our head, it maybe just that he has not seen your script and so is not following it!! relax and try and get things back into perspective, it is not worth bringing it up with him anymore as you get nowhere by the sounds of it, only more confused, try and go with the flow.
If he is in love with someone else then there is nothing you can do to alter this, and you need to let him go but it maybe just that you feel insecure due to the way he is with you.
Have a break if you think this will help or just try and not think about things so much, just let things take there natural cours.
Good luck
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reader, jessekk69 +, writes (28 November 2006):
Its a bit strange. but it is possible he likes you so much he's scared he'll do something wrong. keep at it and the closer you get you will find out if its for real or not. hope this helps? xx
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