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writes: my partner has ended our relationship of 12 years for the third time in a year. she says she doesn't know what she wants. we have two small children. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): I think she must be going through some sort of crisis in her head. Did you two get together when you were young. Maybe she feels she has missed out on her youth or something. I strongly suspect she is a bit depressed and might need some sort of medical help.
You need to sit her down, talk and get to the bottom of all of this. Don't keep splitting up and going back, the kids are suffering (even if it doesn't show), their little heads will be puddled.
Kids living with one parent who is happy is better than two who keep argueing.
Do take care and have that talk.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (28 November 2006):
 Im afraid theres not much you can do at your end. You might think staying with her might be the best thing to do as you both have 2 children together, but you know wot, its even more traumatising for the children if you kept leaving and getting bad together. Thats a really bad example to set in their minds!! You either go your own separate ways (which I would advice you to do) or go crazy with her moodswings! You choose.
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