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writes: Ive been with a this girl for 3 years i feel she is my soulmate. a few months ago she cheated on me with another guy 10 years older than her after having a sexual realtionship and even giving him oral about 10 times she said she relized what she lost. so know im trying to give her a second chance. but i keep asking her questions about what they did. and i keep getting visions in my head of her and him. their like porno flix going off in my head at random how do i get past these visions and negitive thoughts to make it work for us? PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): girls are like monkeys , they have one hand on a branch at all times. You are just a branch on a tree. If you try to keep track of all the other braches , you will go crazy. enjoy her for what she is, never trust anyone, keep a open mind.
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reader, skates89us +, writes (21 November 2006):
Forget it. She has truamatized you forever. Do you really ever think youll get that trust back. I don't think so. make her pay for her cheating and find someone else. The only way she will ever learn is if she loses what she was to dumb to realize she had. i could never stay with anyone who did that to me regardless of what thier excuse would be. Trust is very hard to build easily breakbale and almost impossible to repair. learning takes place with experience. How will she ever learn not to do that again. there have to be consequences..best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): well she may be ur soulmate but are u hers?
i dont think there is no easy way of forgeting or getting the image of what she did out of ur head, unless of course u forgive her for what she did to u and how she jepardized ur relationship. so until u truley forgive her, its going to be a stuggle until u have accepted it and move on or have trust in her again.
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