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writes: ok after alot of thinking, and confusion for the past week, i've finally decided that i still do love him, i know we arent gettin back together, i miss him dearly but i dont know how to cope. I havent told him since about 2 weeks ago that i still love him. because i only realised today i dont plan on telling him that i do because then it will make things weird wen i see him...what do you think i should do when i see him? act completely lyk friends? have a good time and hope he misses me? keep my distance? what is your advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, marie78 +, writes (20 November 2006):
If you want him back, then tell him the truth so he knows where you stand. Then, leave it alone. He'll need to make the next move. Or you can suggest being friends and stay in contact with him, and maybe he'll come around and see how great you are. But first, I'd give the relationship some distance. However, if you know it's truly over, then put a smile on your face and act as if the break-up doesn't bother you. He'll feel as if you never cared and may want you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): I think you should tell him that you still love him and walk away. Start dating others as friends not lovers, stay busy in your own life and read a book to take your mind off of him, move on, if he comes back then you can get all excited, but deciding you still love someone who does not want to be with you, will not bring them back or make you feel better or change how he feels about you, but tell him, so he knows for sure and move on, tell him you are not waiting around.
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