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writes: about 14 months ago i split up with my 1st girlfriend who i was with for 2 years. I am 19 and i still feel like she is the only person i can love, i havent seen her since because it was a long distance relationship so i have given it space and time, she is with someone else and has been for about 8 months.we split up because i was not giving her enough attention and it was hurting her. it looked like i was choosing mates over her. this is the worst thing i ever done in my life and i realised that straight away.i really miss her and it upsets me all the time and i dont know what to do.i want her back but i dont think it is possible now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): I think you have to accept that it is well and truly over. Move on. You should have learned by your mistakes and hopefully take a better you into another new relationship. Don't hark back to the past just move onto bigger and brighter and better things in the future. I wouldn't phone up and unturn any stones. They have been laid to rest.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (20 November 2006):
Call her- if you have her number- or send an email saying that you've been thinking about her a lot lately. Then, try to have a conversation w/her asking her what she's up to... casual stuff. Then, tell her how she's the only women you've loved and you made a serious mistake when you stoped paying attention to her. Can I ask you a question? What made you truly realize this... is it the fact that she's no longer in your life? I'm asking because I'm trying to understand my ex. His work was the most important thing to him. Anyway, put your cards out on the table, but in a way that's not forcing her to make a decision. Just finish by saying, I just thought I'd tell you that and I hope we can stay in contact. Leave it at that. be sure to give her your information, and it'll be up to her to call. So, you have to be prepared for whatever happens. She may never call you again but she might. In LOVE you can't hold back. take your chances and see what comes of your decisions. Please do not live with regrets!
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