He's back to calling his female friend again and he hiding his phone! What should I do?

A female , anonymous writes:

My bf and I have been together 3 years, i am 22 he is 26, when we first meet he had a younger female friend from the state he lived at before we meet, he says she is just like a little sister to him, but the problem was that he would spend all day on the internet chatting to her, and atl east 2 times a week she would call and they would talk for atleast 1 hour, I felt lonly and sorta like I was only second to him, even when we did spend time with each other he would still talk about her, he was obsessed with her. he even once said to me " name is so hot and sexy and if there was not such an age difference i would $%# her" the day he said that i stop talking to him and i almost broke up with him. in the end they stopped talking because she said something he did not like, its been 2 years and i have noticed that he has been calling her while i am at work, and he has not said anything to me about it, i dont trust him talking to her, im worried things will go back to how it was at the start. he has also been hiding his phone alot, i noticed that he started doing that since he started calling her again. why would he do this to me? what can i do? what can i say?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 July 2008):

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