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I wear condoms in my new relationship! But I can't orgasm...why is this?

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Question - (20 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2006)
A male United Kingdom, *loveamy writes:

Hi

I've recently started a new sexual relationship, but can't seem to orgasm when wearing a condom. What do you suggest I do?!!

My previous girlfriend was on the pill so we didn't use condoms, so am very used to feeling 'skin on skin'.

We've tried to make love 5 or 6 times and I've not been able to orgasm.

My new girl thought it was because of her that I couldn't orgasm, but we've also had unprotected sex 5 or 6 times and I've cum inside her everytime we don't use condoms.

Why can i not orgasm with condoms?!!!

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (20 November 2006):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntCondoms obviously take away some of the sensation caused when having sex, so the men I've spoken to about this say. It's nothing to do with the girl, I guess it's just a downside of practising safe sex!

There's no reason you can't have a perfectly happy sex life always using condoms. You will get used to it and you will be able to come after a while, it just takes time, as it's so different to what you're used to.

Try using the sensation condoms, which are the thinnest ones you can get, hopefully this will give you a bit more feeling. Be careful with them though, they're obviously not as strong as the others.

Good luck and hang in there, it just takes time to get used to.

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