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writes: HiI've recently started a new sexual relationship, but can't seem to orgasm when wearing a condom. What do you suggest I do?!!My previous girlfriend was on the pill so we didn't use condoms, so am very used to feeling 'skin on skin'.We've tried to make love 5 or 6 times and I've not been able to orgasm.My new girl thought it was because of her that I couldn't orgasm, but we've also had unprotected sex 5 or 6 times and I've cum inside her everytime we don't use condoms.Why can i not orgasm with condoms?!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (20 November 2006):
Condoms obviously take away some of the sensation caused when having sex, so the men I've spoken to about this say. It's nothing to do with the girl, I guess it's just a downside of practising safe sex!
There's no reason you can't have a perfectly happy sex life always using condoms. You will get used to it and you will be able to come after a while, it just takes time, as it's so different to what you're used to.
Try using the sensation condoms, which are the thinnest ones you can get, hopefully this will give you a bit more feeling. Be careful with them though, they're obviously not as strong as the others.
Good luck and hang in there, it just takes time to get used to.
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