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writes: My girlfriend is a virgin and I am not. She wants to have sex but I have never had sex with a virgin. How should I have sex with her with ought hurting her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): There is two kinds of sex with a female virgin.
A) rushed -- pathetic, painful, amature sex
B) planned, no rush, all night loving.
Instructions for (B):
Get out of the mindset "I need to get in" and get into the mindset of "kissing, touching, feeling".. This is afterall something that will likely be remembered forever. Do whatever you can to get her wet and crazy. Kiss, suck, rub, hump, lick whatever part of her will turn her on the most. I suggest going down on her and licking her clit. (How many times do you get to eat out a virgin?) Then kiss her neck and rub your cock over her pussy for a long time. Poke her entrance over and over again.. eventually you will just slip in like magic... IF YOU TAKE YOUR TIME.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): i know myself that it hurts alot so go slow and listen to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): Finger her or have oral sex. maybe let her use a dildo first then go for the real thing but remember use protection.
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reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 u need 2 make sure she is really really really really wet or it will hurt like hell. finger her first to make her looser n relax her. then enter her very slowly! i disagree that it hurt loads. it does hurt a lot when you first enter but after that the pain is bearble. she will b fine n it will all b worth it in the end. good luck! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): dude, its gona be a very long way. its hard and slow. believe me. it hurts more then you actually think. the best thing to do is, jus relax and slowly play with her to turn her on.
if she lets you do some finger movement then this would help as it will indicate weather she is comfortable with you or not. the key thing is to make her comfortable as much as you can. indeed its impotant to have loads of lub. and listening to her is even more impotant. because it does hurt them alot.
so, good luck. and remember, when you go in. slow down. listen to her if it hurts her. if it does then retract and come out. cos when it hurts she will be more tense and it will hurt her more. so you have to loosen her up and make her relaxed.
and try again.
you will get there slowly. just dont pressureise her too much. and concentrate as it will take long to break the seal.
after wards, you can enjoy as much as you want. lol
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reader, lucyloo135 +, writes (20 November 2006):
 hi
its good that you are thinking about your girlfriends feelings and not just rushing into things,
now first of all you need to get her in the mood, then when shes ready start to play a little to loosen her up when you think its time you can then begin.
but remember to be gentle at first !
hope this helps
lucy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): My first time having sex was with a guy who had a 10in dick so it hurt for a while but if you have a smaller dick it wont hurt her so bad.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (20 November 2006):
I was a virgin with my ex but I was ready... I was also a bit nervous, wondering if it would hurt, but I was eager to get the ball rolling. My advice: Just go slow when you're entering her. That's where the initial discomfort will be. Listen to what she says... ask her to be vocal, to tell you if something hurts or not. It'll be fine. Be sure to use lubrication! Good Luck!
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