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writes: I am worried about my gf going to college. We have been dating for a little over a year and she and i both want to make it work while she is gone. She keeps reassuring me everything is going to be fine and has never lied or cheated, or given me a reason to think so for that matter. But I still keep worrying about it and it's beginning to make her mad the more i keep asking her about it. She's only going to be 45 mins. away and she sayes that she doesn't want me coming to "check up" on her all the time through the week. We are planning on just seeing each other on the weekends and talking through the week. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on helping me stop worrying so much, she really is an awesome girl and everyone talks about how trusting and good of a person she is. So any advice is appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 July 2008):
Well there is nothing you can do to stop worrying but you can keep it to yourself. If you go on and on about it then she's going to get pushed away.
If you push her away and make her feel awful all the time then she's going to resent you, and that is the time when she is going to meet a nice guy who doesn't make her feel bad all the time and BAM.
Work on being the most trusting loving boyfriend ever, even if you don't feel it, and then she'll have nothing but happy thoughts of you in her head when she's away.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, -Red-  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Ok hun don't go asking her again for 2 reasons: The first is the simple fact that it's making her mad, but she also must feel terrible thinking that you don't trust her.
To be quite honest she wont have much time to do anything other than work in college during the week. Its the weekend that brings the fun-and she'll be with you then :D
Make the most of that time and the time before she leaves. I can garuentee that she may just have the same worries as you and she will miss you just as much as you're going to miss her.
Good Luck :D
xoxox
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