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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months now. I was a virgin when I met him but he wasn't. I'm 18 he's 20 and besically after about 4 months he told me he loved me and a couple of weeks later i realised i loved him (first guy i've ever loved) and anyway I lost my virginity to him. We hadn't done anything a apart from mutual masturbation before that day. Anyway we had sex a lot almost 4 times a day each time I saw him but recently he hasn't been as interested. Although I'm the only girl to have ever made him cum at all. He tells me that sex is tiring and although it's pleasurable it's not that amazing but me giving him blowjobs is. But either way I don't even have to touch him and he's hard... and sometimes sex is the only thing on his mind.I don't know whether it's because he doesn't like sex or that he doesn't like sex with me or that sex is just tiring for him. Can a guy any guy give me an opinion on this... is sex really that tiring?and if it is, is it worth the effort?thanks for the help x
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 Wow, how lazy and selfish. I would say ok, give him blowjobs but only after he has pleasured you.
PS. He sounds like a jerk!
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reader, marie78 +, writes (20 November 2006):
My ex was selfish... However, at first, he would reciprocate everything... but then it became about him. He didn't even like foreplay... he kept saying that men don't think like women, they need a few minutes of kising and then sex... basically, he would always skip step 2- which involves foreplay. So, I became miserable sexually... I was absolutely unfulfilled and became upset at myself for allowing him to be so selfish. I felt like a slut, because all he wanted was blowjobs... it didn't require any work. You need to tell him that he's ridiculous, and that his selfish behavior is a sign of immaturity. Dump him and move on if he doesn't start becoming an active lover! trust me, you'll start to feel as if he doesn't care about you or love you- when you have nothing to do with his attitude. He's a lazy lover just like my ex! And YOU WILL Be Unsatisfied!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): He's totally using you. You blow him and he fantacizes about whomever. Dump him before he destroys you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): Your boyfriend is lazy when it comes to sex, he likes laying there and letting you pleasure him with your mouth and he does not even reciprocate....Sex is the only thing on a lot of 20 year old male minds...sounds like you two have a lot of sex and that is about it, can't tell you more than that, except him being hard without you touching him is completely normal and usual....it sounds to me like he does not care about whether or not he is pleasuring you, sounds selfish and immature to me.
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