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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: How can I give my wife the space she needs to spend time with her friends, and not feel left out? Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, eddie +, writes (30 December 2006):
Well, your question is a little short of information but I'll try. Are you needy or do you feel insecure. Actually, it's not your place to "give" her space. She's entitled, as a human being to have the ability to socialize and enjoy herself without you. You'll find that life is a big event and when you find the aprtner you want, it's something you share. If you try and corner your partner into a relationship defined by you and your rules, you'll lose in the end. She will eventually resent your possessiveness and move away from you. This creates exactly what you've been trying to avoid.
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