A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am a virgin and yesterday I tried to have sex with my boyfriend but I just got really scared and started to panick and cried so we stopped. Is there something with me ? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 July 2007):
There is NOTHING wrong with you. Maybe you aren't quite ready for sex yet. Wait a while and try again.
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female
reader, Mindi +, writes (2 January 2007):
No. there is nothing wrong with you at all.
my first time was terrible. he tried to get inside me, i screamed, fell out of bed, sat on the floor and ended up in tears. he was slightly scared, but put his arm round me and said it was ok.
if you dont think you're ready, wait until you are. sex isnt something you can rush, or you panic. as we both found out... if you do feel you're ready, itll come naturally. if you're boyfriend respects you he'll wait, whatever you decide.
hope it helped. happy new year
x M x
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female
reader, bonym +, writes (30 December 2006):
There is nothing wrong with me, but perhaps you are just not ready for sex. If you were scared, then your body will tense up and make intercourse virtually impossible. Only have sex when you are physically and emotionally ready, ok hun? xXx
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