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writes: dear cupid, ive been through a lot of rough relationship,and i'm with a great guy right now, but everytime he wants to get close to me figuratively i just back away i have this fear and scared to loose him but he said that i am difficult too and becoming a pain in the a**. how can i make this relationship work? please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): I would not want to make a relationship work with a guy who calls me a pain in the ass....he does not respect you.
First off, you may be backing off because your instincts are telling you not to trust him, fear is your friend...he is probably not compatible with you...but if you are doing something that is negative like being argumentative all of the time, then work on changing your behavior, that will serve you well in your next relationship.
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