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anonymous
writes:my life is so hard a lad i really love who ive never felt this way about anybody before says he likes me when he might be getting something off me and doesn't act like it afterwards and doesn't want to do those things . I try to hard i hate my life and he is the one i want and i can't have him ive been through so much with him . I know going off him would be best thing to do but id hate my life more without him in it watching him flirt with other girls at school and it breaks my heart everybodys advice is not good because they dont know what its like. i dont know what 2 do i want to keep liking him but i end up getting hurt and its obvious he doesnt want 2 be with me but i love him so much. Help !?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): You know, you are making your life hard by telling us you want to keep liking this boy who obviously has no regard for you.
WHY would you want someone so much who doesn't want you?
This is making you miserable.
YOU have to be your own best friend in this situation. What would your best friend tell you? She'd surely tell you to begin to ignore this lad, and focus your energy and attention elsewhere! She (you) wouldn't want to see you hurting so badly.
She'd tell you to think about the things (hobbies, activities, etc., people such as family and friends) you like to spend time with and to do those things. She would ALSO tell you to respect YOURSELF, even if this lad does not. Ultimately, what you think about yourself is much more important than what he thinks!
Take care, and take note of what cam has said!
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reader, cam  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 hunni you know what you hav to do. im sry i know this isnt what you want 2 here but its the truth. this guy doesnt love you he's using you. get rid of him you can do better and you will just giv it time. please dont let this happen any longer you deserve more than this and you know it.
the rite thing to do in life is usually the hardest.
goodluck
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