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writes: I have been dating a guy for about a month now and it was love at first sight. But, I have a very close friend and I love him, too. Now that I'm dating I have been having dreams literaly every night about him. In my dreams I am dating him and my boyfriend isn't in any of my dreams. I don't know if I should dump my BF and go out with him or what I should do. Reply to this Question
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 i've had a problem just like this.....i met this lad @ a club and started dating im but my crush before i went 2 the club still lingered in my mind i was unsure of wot 2 do but i asked myself. . .do i feel happy when i'm with my boyfriend....will the relationship with your friend b any good and could it work out....are the feelings mutual? well i soon relised that i still liked my boyfriend and although i was unsure i knew that i could risk losing him
well i dont no if that was exactly advice but i just thought i would post you a little something xxx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (30 December 2006):
 i think you should take a long think about who makes you happy and to follow youre heart hun
you could be dreaming of youre friend as a result of thinking about him before going to bed
youre young which means its not a serious relatioship so just be happy ...xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): it sounds that in youre mind youre having fantasy of another bloke. which can mean a few things..i notice youre quite young and that youre relationship is searious it isnt. i think that ure not happy with youre boyfriend so youre dreaming of someone else
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youre having dreams about him because youre thinking of him before you go to bed.
i think you should think who makes you happy..
and follow youre heart xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): i would say talk to him gently about it. i mean one way or another, if you are with a guy, dreaming about another you are not meant to be together. and either way the guy your dating now is going to be mad, that is if he cares. i would suggest if your going to break up with him, do it while the relationship is young, because trust me, ive dealt with my girl being like this, only 1 year down the road, not 1 month. it hurts, and youll miss him.
just you have to sit and think about who you like, physical and mental attractions, who you would have the most fun with! then if it is the one you are with, you need to instantly stop the thinking and hanging out with the other guy and dont say a word to your guy.
if it is the other guy, talk w/ your current boy about it and see how he feels. then if you must, break up with him. either way it will be hard on you...
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