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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey! I'm a 22 year old female virgin :/...i'm don't believe i'm ugly, I have gotten guys before but always tend to not call them back or back away from them because of insecurities. I'm a little over weight, I weight 145 and am 5'5...but I don't really look fat. I'd like to lose 25 pounds anyways. I'm embaressed that i'm still a virgin and none of my friends know because i'm too embarassed to tell them so I play it off like i'm not. None of them are and haven't been for a long time. I've never had a serious relationship...i've never even really had a relationship actually. I've dated a guy for a week and then got too nervous and backed away.Whats wrong with me? I really want a relationship, and I don't want to be a virgin but i'm so insecure and nervous and don't want to admit to any guy that I am...am I the only one in this boat? lolthanks!
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reader, xNatx +, writes (30 December 2006):
 Hi, no dont worry i am very sure your not the only person in this situation. Ok so when you go out ACT confident (even if you dont feel it) and if a guy starts talking to you that you like, keep smiling and if the conversation goes any further tell him you are a virgin, trust me it is nothing to be ashamed of, its best to wait until you've found the right person anyway, and you never no one day you might bump into someone who is also a virgin. If he gives you his number ring him back when you have a friend with you and maybe try double dating so you feel more confident. Hope this helps.
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