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... Send *cn a private message | | | *cn's profile:Like many others on here, I've had my share of relationship issues. I've been in an abusive relationship, where I was the abused. I've had times where I'd drink and party a bit much, times of depression and really feeling lost as to what I should be doing to improve my life and the lives of my children.
I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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Unhappily married for several years, and every time I see this other man by accident, I fall in love with him.
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A. 8 September 2007: I agree with the others. You take care of yourself. We always wonder too much if people loved us, or what could we have done differently. He was an alcoholic. His abilities were to drink and hang where he was allowed. Taking someone from one state ... (read in full...)
How can I get over his affair?
Q. Hi, I sent you email months ago when I was told my husband was having an affair, I got a lot of help from your answers, but I'm still in doubt... we have decided to try and build our marriage, my husband told me everything, he is not seeing her ...
A. 8 September 2007: Look at your marriage as a whole. It sounds like he is really sorry. He would not have left his job if he wasn't serious about making a change. Your feelings are normal, but are they based on the past, or the possible future events. In other wo... (read in full...)
He's 14 years older than me and in a relationship.... But we have feelings for eachother. Any advice?
Q. Hi i have fallen for someone who is 14 years older than me,at the time that i started to develop my feelings for him, i didn't know that he had a girlfriend. his girlfriend lives and works away. we have spent nights together, cuddling and kissing,...
A. 8 September 2007: He sure is. If he had the feelings for you that he has, he'd end it with his girlfriend and have a relationship only with you. If offered what would you choose, two flavors of ice cream, or just one. You need to tell him, me or her. Make a choice a... (read in full...)
I'm married, but I contacted my ex and now I want to see him! What do I do now?
Q. I dont know what to do. My marriage was on the rocks for about 5 years, well since the beginning. I was always faithful and stuck through all the drama, but these last 2 months I contacted my ex. Now I really want to see him. He just divorced ...
A. 8 September 2007: Who are you not being fair to. Your ex, your kids, you husband, yourself???? When you chose to have children, you take yourself out of the picture. It now becomes in the best interest of your children. It sounds as if you don't really love your... (read in full...)
I cheated, and he wants to see me again. What should I do?
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A. 8 September 2007: First, tell him know. You're not only going to hurt your boyfriend, but you are assisting him in hurting his own children, and partner. Second tell your boyfriend, you have to go. You cheated and you have lost your right by cheating to cont... (read in full...)
I think he cheated... What do you think?
Q. I think my partner is cheating on me, please advise We have been together for 14 years, and have lived together for nearly 7. I have a son by a previous relatonship who has left home. We live with our two other children who are 6 and 3. For so...
A. 8 September 2007: Look at your own words. You use defensive. Why would he become defensive if there is nothing to defend. I don't feel as if I have to defend myself if I'm alone in my room reading.
The communication issue seems to have been there from the begi... (read in full...)
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A. 8 September 2007: It's sad to say this, but take all the children out of the picture for a moment. Now leaving you and her in the picture. What do you really want to do, and what does she really want to do. Kids are not a reason to barely hole a marriage together. I ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?
Q. I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was ...
A. 8 September 2007: You've got to believe you are not the only one with this story. I have heard it so many times. I know it's hard to deal with, understand if everything was easy, we'd never become strong.
Believe me when I say this. You are blessed to have had that... (read in full...)
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