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I had an " Accident " during a lap dance. How can I prevent this from happening again?

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Question - (14 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A male Australia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

While attending a particular club, I became extremely aroused. I finally found this glorious sexy lap dancer.

I nearly made it to the end, but as she was grinding me, I unfortunately ejaculated. I was incredibly embarassed and rushed to the rest room to clean up . The dancer thought it was funny.

But I'm concerned. Has anyone heard about this happening? Are there any dancers out there who can tell if this happened while they were dancing? What the best way to really HOLD ON in this circumstance ?

I really need some help with this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

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Still it was rather embarassing knowing I had lost control and climaxed ..But It was a very HOT dance , and I had an errection for 2 hours prior .

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (15 February 2010):

Dude that's the idea. Sounds like she she made it worth the money.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

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I think you all make good points , except I dont want to masturbate before I go , because I want to feel right on the brink of loosing control ...Its just when I shot my load , It went everywhere as I made sure I was wearing no underwear ... so it was all a bit too much . Id describe the move also , Its great but I dont think my answer would be posted .

Any other guys ever done this ? The dancer laughed , hugged me at the end and said " Sweetie ..Its a giant compliment ..please dont worry , I loved it "

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2010):

Miamine agony auntMasturbate before you go, so you won't get so excited. Or stop going to lap dancing clubs. The girls job is to make you happy and make you loose control, she's done her work fine. I think your supposed to pay her extra.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

Dancers have pretty much heard and seen everything. If you feel your problem about to happen again, I'd think you could just say something like "take it a little slower there." I really don't think she'll mind. I've asked a dancer to stop for a second so I can adjust myself (to get the most out of my dance). It was run-of-the-mill for her and she just laughed and smiled. If you feel bad asking her to slow down, just tell her she's too hot or something.

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