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writes:It seems that one of the most discussed topics on DC is porn and situations related to the watching of and enjoyment of porn by one person in a relationship, and that being resented by the other. To wit: a guy watches porn, as guys are known to do, and is "found out" by his significant other. She (presumably female), thereby gets upset for a variety of more or less understandable reasons. Sometimes justifiable.My question is this: do you, women, enjoy porn in any way shape or form? Yes, some bring it into the bedroom to spice things up, but it's not quite the same as enjoying watching porn on your own. Do women masturbate with porn? Yes I know, guys are more visual and women more romantic/imaginative (a supposition I do not necessarily agree with), but I imagine there are some women out there that watch porn.Who are you? What kind of porn excites you? Do you watch it alone, or only with your partner?I'm curious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Um I'm a female, and I don't watch porn often, but I don't like lesbian porn. I like guy on guy porn if I do watch it.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): I like porn. Im in my early twenties. I feel its a natural part of sexuality. I can watch it alone or with my partner, but the type I watch are different.
For example I mostly watch the female masturbation and girl on girl stuff. But I am so very reluctant to tell my boyfriend this. Im afraid he may think Im bi and would either make in fun of me for it (has happened in the past and made me angry and embarassed to say the least) or would ask to have a threesome or to watch me and some girl. My thing is fantasy and real sex are two different things. To have sex with another woman or man I would have to feel real attraction to them in some way. It'd be like an open invitation to start a relationship with a new person. I simply cannot deal with that; Im a one person type of gal. That's how my mind works.
When Im with my partner I'll watch guy on girl, or threesomes. I think he thinks I really need to see a penis, but sometimes I just dont.
I do like to watch the bj's and semen and stuff but this is another thing I dont like to reveal because Im not sure if he likes it. I think there's a hesitation between us. I know there are gender stereotypes of women that paint them as pure and needing only their men. So telling him I like these specific types of porn is scary to me. What would he think of me? WHat would he want me to do? Would he begin to think of me in only a sexual nature as if now he has someone to fulfill these desires with, and therefore the romantic feeling towards me will decrease?
So to answer your question, yes there are women who like porn, but may be afraid to tell their partners out of compromising the integrity of the relationship and how their partner views them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): The notion that girls in general do not like penises is quite frankly bull-crap. I'm a straight woman and I like porn, but I very specifically like to watch guy-on-guy porn. My husband doesn't know about this because I know he'd find it weird and would worry that it meant I wanted him to do things with guys, but this is not the case. My interest in guy-on-guy porn is completely voyeuristic, I just want to watch, and I want the guys to be random strangers with no connection to me. There's just something about seeing men doing things to one another that gets me so hot under-the-collar, particularly if they're doing things like hand jobs or blow jobs, or even just kissing and touching one another (watching full-on sex between guys doesn't do so much for me).I'll freely admit that I am probably far from the norm though!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Wait a second, be careful, I'm not interested in lesbian porn and if my guy put one on, I'd think he'd be trying to get me to do a threesome... I wouldn't be very pleased, what about me, where's me penis to look at..
Sigh, I think you better ask her what type of porn she likes before you go and try to surprise her.
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reader, itsnotmyproblem +, writes (23 March 2010):
the answer to this question is obvious. there wouldnt be porn made for women . if there wasnt a market, the product wouldnt exist. the real question is do all women watch porn. is the girlfriend that catches you embaressed or jelous. does she think porn is wrong or you watching porn. its down to personal preference. also the content of the porn is important. is it things that you do as a couple, or absolute filth that you'd have to hire an outside contracter? is considered mainstream (girl on girl) or not (midget, gasmasks). if you feel its that important to your life then argue for it. or just take the easy option, dont get caught!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): I like to watch it on my own. I generally do masturbate to it but I do need it to be good porn. Like someone above said theres no chemistry which makes it sometimes crap.
I enjoy porn thats kinda role-played. Like a babysitter or a teacher even though i have no desires for that in real life.
I do watch porn maybe 5 times a week. That is maximum though! Sometimes its generally less.
I hate porn where the girl is bouncing like a basketball. I find it unreal and ridiculous! And I hate when girls always look back to the camera. I mean seriously.. And I hate that the girls always make noise. Sometimes its so obvious they are faking. Of course sound is needed but seriously have you heard some of it!
Sarah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): Haha of course we do!
I watch porn perhaps once or twice a week or so. Anything goes :)
My fiance loves porn as well so neither one of us thinks its a strange thing to watch it.
I almost always masturbate when I'm watching it, otherwise what's the point!
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reader, mikehimself +, writes (23 March 2010):
mikehimself is verified as being by the original poster of the questioninteresting. I never would've thought that women would be into lesbian porn!
and girls don't like the look of a penis? huh.
to follow up, what do you think would be a good way to propose watching porn together? we have done it once, and it was hot, and I'd like to again. the thing is, one of the greatest things about sex is spontaneity. is it a turn off to just come out and ask? should I wait until things have already started? couldn't sex be really less romantic if it is planned?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I love porn. More than my boyfriends. I watch numerous types. Sometimes lesbian. I am not bi though. I think I have only watched it with a boyfriend once or twice, it is always on my own. I never thought of it as weird or different at all, I thought everyone did it. Until being on this site anyway, lol. And I get off to it too. I never saw the point in watching porn otherwise.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 March 2010):
Yep, watch porn alone and with a partner... but to tell the truth most of the stuff is boring and I much prefer a sexy book or romance instead to turn me on.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I know that there are women that enjoy watching porn.
I wouldn't judge or condemn anyone for it, but it really turns me off! But if you like it, then fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): I personally don't think most girls find boys' penis' attractive. Some do. Most don't. Some girls watch lesbian porn alone (This does not make them lesbian), but I don't think many girls indulge in porn, really. It's sorta a guy thing.
I've watched porn a couple of times with my boyfriend. Most of the time, we end up laughing our asses off though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): Yes, offcourse haha , but me myself I dont enjoy it very much.. but my girl-friends doo =D
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reader, pandabird  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 I like watching porn on my own. I never watch it with my boyfriend.I'm bi-sexual, so I mainly watch lesbian porn, just for some variety. It definitely does not mean I'd rather be with a woman though (as somebody once suggested to me) I think there is something very sexual about a woman cumming, and if I can't have sex with my boyfriend, then watching that is the next best thing. I'm sure my boy watched porn with women who are the complete opposite to me as well, it's just for fantasy!
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