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writes: hey!Just need a little advice, it's not too serious though =].I have just starting seeing this guy who is 8 years older than me, do you think this is too much? I am 18 nearly 19 and he has just turned 26.I have asked him and he said "this is a new experience for me too, let's just see how it goes =]"What does this mean.?Also was wondering if you have any ideas of how I can keep him interested? We get on really well and have loads of things in common but at the moment we are keeping things on the low as we would get a lot of questions from people who we both know, is this normal.?Thanks for the help.x.x.x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Do you realize that if you stay together that when he's 80 you'll only be 72!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): I am 25 and my fella of 3 years is 42 and our sex life altho we do not have as many sex marthons as we did when we 1st got together is brilliant, I never ever felt the need to say no not 2nite, we are brilliant together, your age difference is not that big so still at it, am sure youll make a great couple.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (22 March 2008):
It means that he is willing to give it a try.
Nobody has to know your age differences.
It is not too big a difference anyway.
If you want him to be interested in you ,
you will need to be interested in what he is doing.
Then, there will be mutual similarities.
When there is a common ground , interest will last longer.
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reader, mastermale +, writes (22 March 2008):
I'm 10 years older than my girlf - shes 19. It can be an uphill struggle with the age gap but only till people get used to you as a couple.As for keeping him interested - just be yourself and have fun. Its like any relationship it may work it may not - it will more than likely be down to personalities that age!Good Luck
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